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Heat Bandage

Have you seen those heat pad things that Koreans use when part of their body hurts? I’m sure other countries use them too but Koreans seem to use them a lot. They stick on like a giant sticker and then get really really hot.

He says I must have kicked him in the butt while I was sleeping and that’s why his butt hurts… but I don’t think so. More likely from working out at the gym.

Even when he came home from work and after he’d taken it off hours earlier he said his butt was still on fire. So I guess… don’t put them on your butt!

I was trying to ask them what the Korean name is for these things. They said something like “pass” or “parse” and I tried to get them to spell it in English but they were too busy talking and google didn’t really bring up anything. Ahh google you are no help these days!

What are these actually called in Korean?

Googling

Actually I was trying to google Cheonggyecheon.

Google is pretty good at guessing when you misspell an English name or word… but heaven help you if you don’t know the exact spelling of a Korean name! If you have any ‘ch’ in it don’t be surprised if “ching chong” comes up. I’ve had it happen more than once.

If you haven’t heard this before: it’s a very offensive and derogative term for Asian people. Originally used in the 19th century when Chinese miners came out to the Australian gold fields. It was used as an insult for Chinese people. It was also used like “Ching Chong Chinaman.” It mimics their names and their language but in a very stupid and uneducated way. Since then it has been directed at any Asian person by racists because if someone is that racist, well they are obviously too dumb to know that there are different Asian countries.

Unfortunately it is sometimes still used. A few years ago a Korean friend who worked on a building site in Australia asked me one day, “What does ching chong mean?” I was hesitant to reply just in case he had misheard and I didn’t want him to have something horrible explained to him if it wasn’t needed. My fears were confirmed though, when he said one of the white Australian workers had yelled at him “Hey ching chong!” He didn’t know it meant but had seen the boss yell so harshly at that worker and he realised the guy had said something so bad.

My husband also said that when he was working in an abattoir on one of his working holiday visas a white Australian called a Korean worker that insult. The white Australian worker was fired on the spot even though he’d been working there for years and years.

At least most bosses don’t tolerate it but it is upsetting that there are still morons using such an offensive insult.

So it’s always a ‘WTF’ moment when just innocently searching for a Korean name google says “did you mean this?” No I did not mean that google!

Korean Stuff Giveaway

I’m giving away some Korean stationery stuff. Just a few things:

a notebook, ice cream sticky notes, a strawberry pencil case, a stationery set with mini notepad, mini pencils and stamps, fabric stickers, a pencil sharpener and a clip… thing (I think for clipping paper together… anyway it has a teddybear on it)

Photos:

If you live in Korea you probably don’t need to enter because I’m sure you can easily get this type of stuff because Korea is overflowing with cuteness :)This giveaway is for people who have more difficultly getting Korean things like this.

All you have to do to enter is leave a comment! The winner will be randomly picked next week (probably on the 11th September).

And stay tuned! There will be a Japanese cute things giveaway possibly next week.

Oww My Toes

It was Sunday and we were like “Yay let’s make Korean pancakes together!” Unfortunately my excitement ended when my foot collided with the stupid wall.

I think I ‘cry wolf’ too often because he wasn’t too concerned, even with my very loud wailing. Okay sometimes I act too dramatic about minor hurts but this one was bad! You know the feeling of bumping your elbow and knocking your funny bone and the pain is like aghhhhhh? It was even worse than that. All my toes! I swore all my toes were broken!

He was sympathetic but when he saw that nothing was broken he continued to the kitchen but I had to lay there for a bit longer. Ow!

Avoiding

My interpretation of something he told me yesterday. I had to point out that it was kinda hard for his friend to say hi when he is hiding from him!

 

Other Cutesy?

This comic is a response to a comment by Hannah Jade:

“Please do a post talking about other cutesy things that your boy likes! It’s fun hehe I wanna try them out >.<“

So I asked him:

So my advice is to be nice and make food but make rude hand gestures as well? Sorry that isn’t a good answer 🙁

There is a lot more freedom to be cute in Korean culture but it’s good to keep it more natural as well.

BUT I did try out the “bbuing bbuing” aegyo recently. My husband laughed so hard… but that might have been because it’s so ridiculous.

If you are unsure what that one is here is an example:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kEQqUfJsdeI

and another example

ahahahaha

Some Days

(remember these comics are just about my experiences and not a guide to all Korean men! haha)

Oh the difference between TV and reality! Funnily enough though, the other week when out with Korean friends, the girls told me I was lucky that my husband was always well dressed and well groomed. I just laughed because they have seen him at his best- which isn’t often. Sometimes it’s a real stand off because I want him to change into something nicer before we go out and he seems to think it’s such an effort.

I have noticed a difference between guys in Korea and Korean guys in Australia who are on working holiday or student visas. There is less pressure in Australia to look good and if they are busy working or studying they don’t care as much. Where as actually in Korea you will see some amazingly stylish men and more emphasis on fashion.

I think my husband is still stuck in “working holiday mode” although he is actually a resident now.

I actually didn’t start watching Korean dramas until after I met my husband. So when I did it was like, “What? They are supposed to look like that?!”

I shouldn’t be too hard on him, he’d much rather buy me something pretty rather than spend any money on clothes for himself.

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